Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Seriously

What the heck is WRONG with some people? (In case you have been living under a rock) Constance McMillen is a well spoken and out lesbian who wanted to wear a tux to prom and bring her gf as her date. Evidently this is a crime in the state of Mississippi. You can catch up on the back story here. The ACLU ended up getting involved and the school decided to cancel the prom rather than allow Constance to attend. A judge has already ruled that Constance's constitution rights have been violated by being banned from her prom. I've been struck by how mature and well spoken she has been throughout the whole ordeal. Here she is on Ellen: The saga took yet another disappointing turn this weekend when, adults of her town set up a fake alternative prom that Constance was invited to. It's like something right out of Carrie or a Lifetime movie. She showed up and only a few a few other special education students where in attendance. And again Constance comes out on top with her mature reaction to this devastating hoax. “They had the time of their lives,” McMillen says. “That’s the one good thing that come out of this, [these kids] didn’t have to worry about people making fun of them [at their prom].” Bullying and discrimination like this is what leads kids to killing themselves in high school. It's totally dispicable that students, parents and administrators appear to have all colloborated to discriminate against and humiliate this girl. I mean, it's sad that teens could be so cruel, but it's not unheard of. For adults to behave so poorly is horrific.

4 comments:

Kourtney said...

This is AWFUL! Have you seen the facebook page they set up about her? She is stronger and more mature than me!

Laura said...

I read this too the other day and I was so shock at how grown adults acted. This girl is more mature than any of those adults. Its really sad to see that there is still discrimination going on.

Mandy Luchtefeld said...

I had tears in my eyes over the fact that they discriminated against her and the special education kiddos. WTH? Those parents should be taken to court. If someone did that to my kid... oh my word...

Leah said...

No doubt unkind things have been done and said towards Constance as result of her choices and actions on this matter, that is the tragedy I see in this case. ALL of the students missed their prom, not just Constance, because a town decided that they don't have to put up with behavior they feel is morally wrong and inappropriate.
Constance is free to choose to do morally unacceptable things, but as a person who opposes such behavior I can say "This is not alright" and still care about the person. In fact as a mother and a person, I feel it is less loving to say sin is acceptable than to teach, lovingly and kindly, that sin is wrong.

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