So I'm e-mailing back and forth with a new e-harmony guy. He seems nice enough, although he tends to go for long periods of time (5-7 days) before he replies to my e-mails, which I find rather irritating. I suggested since we both have gmail sometime we could use the chat feature on there. He responded that he likes the chat feature on facebook better and gave me his screen name there.
Which, eh, no.
I'm just going to ignore that one.
I think I would much rather give him my phone number friend him on facebook. As a matter of fact, besides my home address, (which he could probably find on his own with a few minutes of internet sleuthing) I can't think of anything more personal to let him see. I know I am rather addicted to facebook, probably more so than the average person. Giving him access to that would mean access of my pictures. Ones that I added and ones that others have tagged....
Including this little gem my aunt recent tagged of me:
***shudder***
Also providing total access to pictures of Isaac, my friend's comments, events, groups, my updates, my tweets, a link to this blog.... yeah I don't think so.
Thoughts?
6 comments:
Yeah, I don't blame you. There's way too much information on there for people you don't really know if you want to know.
Yeah, I agree with you. That is too much information for him to know if you guys are not serious.
Yes I feel the same way, I don't have alot of friends just because I have pics of my kids on there. I think there are other means of communication besides facebook.
*I think that pic is cute =)
Ew e-harmony! If he doesn't respond in that long to something simple like an e-mail I'd say he's not that interested anyway. The Facebook thing is to spy you out before he commits to any sort of real communication.
I'd say no too. Too personal, and a way for him to really check you out without having to actually commit to anything. 5-7 days is way too long to go without responding to emails too, I think. Especially if he is on facebook so much.
Don't do it. Facebook chat is garbage so you know he just wants to "spy" on you. I have had guys ask for mine and oh the excuses why have been laughable. One was so that he could add me to the games he plays, so I offered to send him my secondary account I just use for said games. nope not interested in that...
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