I was so caught off guard.
Because, well, let's face it, teaching special ed in a high poverty area isn't exactly a job where people are showering you with praise or recognizing all the things you do.
It's sad when it's actually jarring that someone tells you that you are doing an okay job and that they appreciate you.
I guess this is partially because I think the loudest negative voice is my own. I have an unfortunate habit of looking at the best version of other people and comparing it to the worst version of myself. It's an inaccurate measuring stick.
I need to work on that.
And I need to make more of an effort to tell my coworkers that they are appreciated. And my students. And my family.
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I think we all use that measuring stick for ourselves. I know I do.
One of my classes this semester is about teaching students with disabilities...I can't even fathom what you see every day and I would love to pick your brain!
there is something about letting someone know they are appreciated-which also tells them they count and they are noticed and they matter-that is magic. i have noticed that in my calling in church. i do compassionate service and i make sure to thank everyone profusely(and sincerely)for what they have done.i try not to take anything for granted. they think they just threw together some casserole, but to the family who received it, its a whole other matter.
i admire the work you do. i know that i could not do it properly. glad you got some positive feedback and that you are working on that comparing your worst to someone elses best. i had never heard that before until about a year ago and it was like a revelation to me. thanks for mentioning it here.
YOU are APPRECIATED! Don't ever forget that!!!!! :) I think that's something I would post on my bathroom mirror and read every morning after I woke up!
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